Men, Sex ‘n Porn

Men, Sex ‘n Porn
So much has been written about women’s sexuality it is time to publish some bare facts
to explain, unpolished, the other side of the equation; men.
When it comes to sex, men are by nature predators; women are selectors. That happy
mix ensures the continuation of our species.
Men are not by nature monogamous; that explains their wandering eye. Indeed
consciously or unconsciously men are constantly and compulsively on the hunt.
For example, that guy you passed in the hall has already mentally undressed you,
decided if he would have sex with you; and how. So does every other man you meet
unless he’s gay, then he’s looking past you and focusing on the guy standing beside you.
Surprised? Hurt? Flattered? Don’t be, its men’s nature. And in the great scheme of
things, meaningless.
Sex drives men from puberty through old age. It is their “raison d’etre”, their purpose in
life; to reproduce. Everything else is, well, fluff. It diminishes with age but never
disappears. Sex is a primitive - primordial - urge.
The sex urge drives them hard; it is wired deep into the primitive levels of their brains;
alongside the other basic drives. The bottom line? Without this urge we would never
survive as a species.
Men are emotional animals too. They can and do meet and stay faithful to one woman
for life. They fall in love and trust completely. Men have been compared to dogs; bright,
fun to be with, a hair dumb at times and if unfixed, constantly horny. If we’re dogs, then
women are cats and have all the traits that go with the feline makeup. That, however, is
another story.
Women have sex drives too, however theirs is not driven by a unique glandular and
hormonal combination. A German study found that while women’s sex drives drop
significantly after they enter a secure relationship, men’s don’t.
Unlike girls, at puberty, boys are given two special and important gifts from nature;
testosterone and a prostate gland. The prostate is the main producer of seminal fluid and
once it’s turned on it never turns off. Manufacturing semen 24/7, its fluid lubricates the
urethra and ensures reproductive system health; in addition to its primary purpose of
ensuring the safe delivery of sperm. Testosterone is what drives this system and injects
aggression into the mix.
As an active gland the prostate insists on being emptied frequently. Depending on age,
and the man, this may be as often as once a day; maybe more. Less as they age and
hormones diminish.
This is accomplished through sex, masturbation or nocturnal emissions. And it’s not an
option; it has to be done to maintain health – mental and reproductive. In a practical
sense frequent emission of semen ensures healthy sperm.
There are many other glands that makeup the male reproductive system that also
produce fluids. There is the Cowpers Gland (Bulburethral gland), glands of Littre,
seminal vesicle, vas deferens, epididymis (where sperm are stored), and of course, two
testicles. The testes produce billions of sperm on a weekly basis; billions that don’t take
kindly to sitting in the epididymis for long. They want out. Men produce an estimated
quadrillion (1,000,000,000,000) sperm in a lifetime.
As any sexually active woman knows, her significant other is driven to have sex. This is
nature at work, pushing the male to reproduce above all else; sometimes to the expense
of all else. The reward is an orgasm, relief, a reduction in stress, emotional bonding; and
the start of a countdown until the next time.
If sex is not available, men masturbate. If they don’t, nature empties the glands while he
sleeps. The prostate doesn’t care; when it’s filled to capacity it has to eject; fortunately
not spontaneously. In many men a full prostate is painful.
Men are visual when it comes to sex; it is part of the feedback loop. That’s why women
appear pretty or sexy. It’s what attracts men to women.
How does pornography fit into this picture? Simple. It is a visual feedback stimulant.
Many men have a need for additional stimulation. This is accomplished in various levels
depending on a combination of factors including character, sex drive, sex life, stress,
hormones – any number of things. Porn adds a visual stimulant that helps taper or
increase the sex drive. Porn adds pleasure during masturbation also filling in for an
absent female. Porn is material fantasy; a replacement for, or supplement to mental
fantasy. Women get confused about this. Men aren’t having sex with the models in the
pornography, the stimulant is watching others having sex.
Some men find a trip to Hooters stimulating. Others frequent strip joints. Some up the
ante with drugs or alcohol. Others employ the world’s oldest professional, prostitutes.
Still others are compulsive cheaters. The testosterone is all controlling, demonstrable
through male risk taking and aggression (an observation, not an excuse).
If you want a demonstration of how primitive men's sex drives are add some beer to the
mix. Watch as his social barriers diminish and his sex drive take over. Men will have sex
with just about any female after a few drinks; hence the term ‘beer goggles’. Some men
need alcohol to have sex as they need help in reducing inhibitions or they find their mate
unattractive. Too much liquor however and all bets are off.
Many readers may disavow this article and they’re welcome to. Men are however all
wired the same and subject to the same urges. Indignant women may think “my
husband’s not like that.” Knock yourself out. Sex drives all men from Presidents to the
preachers and all in between. What differs is the intensity of the drive and the means
used to satisfy it. Like all other aspects of our personalities, life experiences and morals
may add further tweaks to that mix.
The male sex drive has been around since the beginning of time. When it disappears, so
too shall we.
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